My Allergies Won't Get In the Way of My Extra-Curriculars... Will They?
Dear FAANTeen,
In my sophomore year of high school, before I was diagnosed with food allergies, I was secretary of my class. I had reactions a lot and missed many days of school (and class meetings) since I didn’t know it was food allergies causing the reactions.
Now, as a junior, I am interested in being class secretary again. The problem is that because I have missed school due to reactions, the other class officers don’t feel I am dependable enough for the position. I feel like I am beginning to get my allergies under control and that since now I know what is causing the reactions, I won’t have as many of them.
What can I do to help the class officers realize that my allergies don’t prevent me from being involved in activities?
I’m glad that your allergy is now under control—it certainly sounds like things must have been difficult for a while!
Working by example is really the best way to prove to the class officers that you are ready to come back on the team. Start slowly with smaller jobs, and let them see that you are committed to the work and are passionate about the position. Then once you have established your work ethic, let them know that you are interested again in being secretary.
If they bring up the issue about food allergies, try explaining to them what it has been like for you. Describe in detail how difficult reactions can be and how much of a burden they can sometimes be. Then explain to them what you are doing differently this year that would better allow you to perform your duties.
You would be surprised how very little most people know about food allergies. Educate your class officers about what having food allergies really means, and, who knows, maybe they can do some kind of food allergy awareness fundraiser.
Reiterate that you would really love to be class secretary again and that there is no reason that you cannot fulfill the job requirements. Make sure they are aware that allergic reactions are absolutely unpredictable and that, because you cannot control the future, you cannot guarantee that you will not have a reaction. Reassure them, however, that you will do everything in your power to prevent another reaction.
You could also set up some kind of emergency communication plan so that if you have a reaction one morning and there is a class officer meeting that afternoon, all the other officers could know what happened. Make sure your materials are in a location that the other officers can access so that the meeting can be conducted without you.
The best way to handle this predicament is to troubleshoot and educate. Make sure that in the event of a reaction, everything can be done without you, and know that you are to be admired for wanting to continue with the position despite your allergy.
Good luck!
Michelle is a student at American University studying to earn a bachelor's degree in international relations and history. She is an avid swimmer and has been living with her allergy to tree nuts since she was 2 years old.
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My advice is to live your life — don't let your food allergy live your life for you. The other officers should understand about your allergy.~Kelly age 17, allergic to milk, peanuts, and shellfish
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